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Robert and Angela Bolton met in June 1985 – a meeting which changed both their lives. After 23 years together, they got married. Now, in the 30th year of their love affair, Robert is in hospital in what is described as a ‘minimally-conscious’ state.
I began this blog to get Bob into assessment, and that happened. I also used it to document Bob’s musical career, and our lives together. This has made me realise how lucky I’ve been – always, all through my life – and how incredible human beings are: there have been so many who have offered help during the last three-and-a-half years, and a lot of them have become friends, enriching my life to a degree that overwhelms me sometimes.
This blog has now become something different: maybe a tribute the power of love, passion for life – things I’ve come to know for sure can cause change for the better.
Thank you to everyone for their kind comments on the blog – it’s not a very busy one but I hope you enjoy my (by now) rather mundane stories and memories.


My name is Angela Bolton and I started this blog to tell the story of my husband Robert’s progress after suffering a post-operative cardiac arrest which led to hypoxic brain injury (October 2011).

Now that we have had Bob SMART assessed and he’s comfortable at the Royal Hospital Donnybrook, this blog is now my way of communicating with him, and anyone interested in his well-being: our friends and family from abroad and our good friends in SJH, the NRH and the RHD.

Bob’s an incredibly special person, and my whole world collapsed when he sustained his injury. I had lost the best part of myself and my future, and didn’t know what to do. The challenge of getting him into proper assessment took so much of my energy that when it was achieved, I seemed to have no other life.

I’m trying to rebuild that life and do what I can for both of us.

Thank you so much for reading this blog

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  1. Rick Furay / Jul 18 2012 3:46 pm

    Thanks for helping out, excellent info .

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  3. Brendan Flynn / Aug 20 2012 10:14 pm

    We know exactly how you feel because we have been there and we are still going through hell. We have followed the same path even down to visiting the Royal in Putney and we have got the same answers from the HSE. Our son , also named Robert, survived SADS, a miracle in itself, but surviving our health system could require a bigger feat. From reading your story, Robert Bolton couldn’t have a stronger person working for him and we will gladly offer any help we can from our experience.

  4. Eloise / Dec 29 2012 9:59 pm

    Hello just wanted to give you a quick heads up. The words in your article seem
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    to let you know. The layout look great though!
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    • angelavbolton / Dec 29 2012 11:16 pm

      Hi Eloise, must be a browser compatibility issue ~ looks fine when I view it. Thank you for reading the blog, though, and I hope it was of interest to you. Began as a way to reach out to people but became a labour of love, especially on the nights when I was out of my mind with fear and despair wondering how in the hell people get through times like this. This is how they do it – by telling their story and trying to find every single way to help the one they love: it’s what’s kept me from running out of hope. People who’ve heard the radio interview or read the articles in the Irish Times or Southside People have been so kind and full of help and advice. It’s humbling and inspiring, and kept me going for 15 months. Robert is still with us and will continue to be as long as I have any say in the matter. God bless and take care. Angela

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      Thank you, I’d be happy for you to share it with whoever you feel would be interested. I appreciate your asking. Best regards, Angela

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